My first Baptism wasn't immersion, do I need to be baptized again?

How can you go against years of history and church tradition and believe in an Annihilation view of Hell? 

Do you say congratulations to an engaged lesbian couple?

How do we put to death the deeds of flesh and move pass residual and habitual sin in our lives? How do we live in the tension that Paul provides - being righteous and yet being the chief of sinners?